where do you draw the line...

topic posted Wed, June 25, 2008 - 3:07 PM by  dave
between a pleasantly hairy chest, & what has been described in the other thread as massive loads of hair?
i'm not a bear, but it's not peach fuzz either.
posted by:
dave
Milwaukee
  • I always prefer smooth, but as long as you can still see the chest underneath we won't have a problem. The only thing likely to give me any pause is back hair. I know some ladies dig it (my mother for one) but I do not.
    • I always prefer smooth, but as long as you can still see the chest underneath we won't have a problem. The only thing likely to give me any pause is back hair. I know some ladies dig it (my mother for one) but I do not.
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~

      What she said. And as another pointed out, wanting to kiss his body and coming away with a mouthful of fuzz ain't cool.
  • If you have sasquatch hair, it's too much. Excessive shoulder, neck and back hair freaks me out. I want to be able to kiss my man all over without flossing my teeth.

    Hey, I've got to maintain my hair and what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
  • Just to clarify, is this question aimed towards the bi/gay sexy men of the tribe?

    Didn't hear many respond in the other hairy chest thread here, but just want to clarify, Dave.

    ~ Kole
    • well, this tribe is where the other question was, the one that made me think of this one, & i just posted the thread here. i'm kinda lazy that way, i guess. it seems like both men & women answer and ask freely on both tribes, so i didn't see the point in going to the trouble to go to the other one.
      so, to clarify, neither the bi or gay sexy men. they could answer if they so choose, but i'm more interested in a woman's perspective.
  • I don't mind chest hair..seeing the skin beneath is sexy. As for back hair, take it off!!! Wax, laser, shave, however it happens it needs to go, at least for me.

    And also, I like things trim and tidy down under too! I use enough dental floss throughout the day, I don't need it while giving a bj.
  • well I like my girls without hair on their chest or backs personally ;)

    fortunately for me I only have moderate hair on my chest and none on my back
    • i actually find a fair amount of body hair mighty sexy, tho not required in a man. i do agree with the concerns about being able to kiss a man without coming away with a mouthful of hair, and would say that while trimming is one way to go, perhaps a more important thing to keep in mind is that much like the hair on your head, your body hair sheds from time to time. If you know (or are hoping) you are going to play with a someone, consider using a loofa, or soap with little scrubbies, or even some salt with liquid soap mixed in (careful if you have broken skin with this one!) in it to cut down on the loose hairs before you go out. It will also make the skin that is visible more glow-y.

      ~birdie.

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