I recently had an issue with someone in regards to naming a venture. She wanted to put the word "Chicks" in the name of the service, which is a domestic trade, and I felt all uncomfortable with that.
In the past i have seen realtor signs (which are already weird enough) for two women nick-named "Bizzy Blondes" and that bugged me.
Something about attaching words that employ imagery connected to gender in a professional manner seems... well, unprofessional to me. maybe I'm overreacting but I don't want to be addressed as a 'chick' or 'blonde' or whatever in a professional setting. I wouldn't feel as if I was setting myself up to be taken seriously, I guess.
What do you think?
In the past i have seen realtor signs (which are already weird enough) for two women nick-named "Bizzy Blondes" and that bugged me.
Something about attaching words that employ imagery connected to gender in a professional manner seems... well, unprofessional to me. maybe I'm overreacting but I don't want to be addressed as a 'chick' or 'blonde' or whatever in a professional setting. I wouldn't feel as if I was setting myself up to be taken seriously, I guess.
What do you think?
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"What do you think?"
If it makes the income you want to gain, use it.
If you have the income and resources to not have to utilize that measure, and it is something you feel strongly against, go for another title.
If you don't have the income to support yourself otherwise (different title), and your income won't support you with something less 'inviting', then pursue your heart without any reservations or considerations for your financial future (if that's important to you, consider selling out).
Das all ;).
~ Kole
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Natural Persons
07/09In selecting a business name (and other aspects of branding and marketing) there is a lot to consider, and choosing a "gendered" name can be the right thing. In some cases, one may be cultivating a particular market. A very successful home contractor in Portland, for example, is called "Jill of All Trades" and we have a local business called "Hip Chicks Do Wine." There are a lot of folks (myself included) who want to encourage diversity in the market place so, in addition to being memorable (with great logos), these names help the customer identify a differentiator. For some things it may not matter, but for some people it does, and it can be a way to let folks know that (a) you are not another "Aaaaajax Services" generic and (b) that you are a real person. All things being equal, I would rather help "mix up the marketplace" by choosing a female dentist or accountant or plumber or whatever, and it identifies an individualistic small business. In the great economic game of democracy, the basic rule is "one dollar, one vote," and I like to support the underdog.
For other things, there are very good reasons that one may wish someone of a given gender: anyone who touches one's body or enters one's home, for example, or choosing a litigation attorney.
Are the "Bizzy Blondes" using the name to clarify that they do commercial realty or to differentiate themselves in some other way? Where I live, it seems that many realtors are standard-issue pretty white girls, but I know that there are some women who would gravitate toward someone they perceive as more like them, and this could be a cynical grab at a certain demographic. I'm not sure, but it does not offend me.
Gender exists and cuts both ways, and can be embraced or denied for valid reasons. Those who live by the sword may die by the sword, but it really seems like something for a business and their customers (or lack of same) to work out. I find it less offensive and annoying than those damn Christian "ixthys" fish on everything.
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Re: Natural Persons
07/11i can see why someone might care about the gender of their massage professional, but i'm curious what very good reasons one might have for considering gender when choosing a litigation attorney, mac rory. -
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Gaming the System
07/11Gender frequently matters in litigation because litigation can very much be about persuading people and presenting a plausible story. For some things there are some people who are more sympathetic than others, and reason only works so well in protecting one against irrational influences such as racial stereotypes, prejudice against ugly people, and so on.
I have spoken elsewhere about an ex of mine whom has accused me of wanting to kill her and, although I have not spoken with her in over ten years, she has twice called me into court to seek a restraining order. The first time (in 1993?) she came in with two female lawyers and they came across as a bunch of clueless and vengeful harpies. The second time (in 2006?) she came in with her attractive boyfriend and a well-groomed, young male attorney. There were different judges in each case, but she was granted the second order. When it comes time for me to bring her back into court to have the order rescinded, I plan to hire a young and attractive female attorney. In the first case I, as a defendant without a lawyer, looked like a victim. In the second case I, as a defendant without a lawyer, looked like a creepy guy who could be threatened by two handsome men (and whom the judge perceived as more like himself). An appreciation for the perceptions of each gender in different sorts of cases are well-documented in the legal literature.
It is bullshit, but frequently a person of one gender or race can get certain tasks done more successfully. This is one of the reason that disparate "salt and pepper" or "mutt and jeff" teams of police are so successful. Some people are more comfortable and more sympathetic to one gender or another. Why are female models chosen for some products and male models for others? Same principle.
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