To bite or not to bite...

topic posted Sun, April 27, 2008 - 10:03 PM by  Treasured
To feel his teeth close gently, or not so gently, on my lower lip, neck, nipple, ass cheek, clit is extremely erotic to me. It puts an extra layer of intensity into my response to his foreplay efforts. I think it is the presense of the primal or danger element that is very thrilling in love making for me. I've also noticed he reacts just as positively when I use my teeth when I'm giving him head. Gently biting at his balls and cock is a very obvious turn on for him.

However, I often hear guys indicating "NO TEETH" when receiving oral. I'm just wondering how you feel about biting..gentle..and not so gentle. Turn on or definate no no?
  • Re: To bite or not to bite...

    Sun, April 27, 2008 - 10:14 PM
    I love biting and being nibbled, however no teeth on oral thank you. Nibble my lower lip, my nipples, my neck but not my cock please.
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      Sun, April 27, 2008 - 10:25 PM
      I'm with Simon, and I'll add my scrotum to that thank you very much. ;-)

      That said, I love a good bite on my nipples, lower lip, ear, or just about anywhere else where danger or sensual intensity can amplify the moment. It's a pleasant thing to wake up in the morning with some visual reminders of the night before (though not TOO visible to others).
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    Sun, April 27, 2008 - 11:32 PM
    Yeah gonna agree, keep the teeth off my cock, if ya can't then don't bother I will find someone else to suck my cock, include the balls in that as well.

    Not a turn on at all.

    JSin
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    Mon, April 28, 2008 - 6:30 AM
    I have to add my vote along with the guys. Biting the kitty is not welcome. The rest of me is fair game, but not the girlie bits. Too delicate and too sensitive. Likewise I don't chomp his bits either.

    And as someone else has already said, seeing those reminders of pleasure is a sweet thing. He's welcome to mark me as much as he wishes. I like wearing them.
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    Mon, April 28, 2008 - 7:06 AM
    Right now I'm a little overwhelmed by biting, as our new puppy is deep into the teething stage, and those little puppy teeth are like needles. But, in more normal times, biting anywhere is ok, and sometimes very good.
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      Mon, April 28, 2008 - 8:24 AM
      I'm a biter and I love to be bitten, especially the girly bits! oh, and the neck and shoulders!
      For me, marks always make for some fun conversations...and a nice trip down memory lane when I find them in the shower!

      But it's good to hear the mens response, helps me to remember to stay aware of those boundaries. Usually I ask what he likes before I go for it, I can get a little rough orally sometimes... I'll have to try to learn to play nicer!
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        Tue, April 29, 2008 - 7:29 PM
        "I'm a biter and I love to be bitten, especially the girly bits! "

        That's interesting as I know a few women who enjoy a bit of labia biting. Hot, but in my experience not for everyone. =)
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    Mon, April 28, 2008 - 10:27 AM
    It's pretty much impossible to avoid being bitten anyway, just incidently, so seeking out more biting would not be on the list of things to do.
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      Tue, April 29, 2008 - 7:48 PM
      And if I change the term from "bite" to "caress". As your cock is cradled in the warm moist mouth of your trusted "other", You enjoy the sucking and stroking of the lips, the gentle touch of the tongue as it slides this way and that around your shaft. Then as the suction approaches the head and you pop free from that cozy haven, the eyes of your "other" look up at you and you see mischief in them coupled with a grin. Then the teeth gently caress and stroke the head, the pressure very light, just enough to give a new and "thrilling" sensation?

      Yes? or Still no dice?
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        Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:42 PM
        <Yes? or Still no dice?>

        Ye'..... ... No. LOL


        Think of it like someone biting your clit. YIKES. Just too dang sensitive. But on the flip side... anywhere else is probably good. =) If you're in my bed, you don't even have to ask. Just bite me. ;-) LMAO
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          Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:58 PM
          Mmm but I love the sensation of his teeth sinking into my throbbing clit. Sure to send me screaming in ecstasy over the edge everytime. I guess it's got a lot to do with trust though. If I didn't fully trust the biter, then the thrill might not be as heated.
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        Wed, April 30, 2008 - 6:40 AM
        "the teeth gently caress and stroke the head, the pressure very light, just enough to give a new and "thrilling" sensation? "

        LOL I like a woman who pushes the envelope. I'd say this is a maybe. Technically it's not biting, but would have to be done very carefully to give your "thrilling sensation" combined with a bit of danger, while avoiding too much pressure that would result in a very unpleasant biting/scraping sensation.
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          Wed, April 30, 2008 - 9:32 AM
          I'm with Treasured... I love the clit biting - but I have to really trust my partner... I won't ask to be bitten unless I know he's got some self control and is paying attention to my needs... same goes for when I'm doing the biting. Communication is crucial - always!
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        Wed, April 30, 2008 - 10:09 AM
        No, thanks. It's like dragging the blade of a screwdriver over your cock. Even if done lovingly and gently it's still a little uncomfortable.

        I don't mind gentle biting other places, broader and flatter places, like muscles and stuff.
  • Re: To bite or not to bite...

    Sun, May 4, 2008 - 9:20 AM
    Receiving oral sex has never been my favorite sexual activity, but I definitely enjoy a bit of tooth-on-cock action from time to time, possibly because it represents such a committed, carnal interest in the whole affair. When you are tender be very, very tender. And when you are fierce be very, very fierce.

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