Great question!

For me, and this is me only, I dislike the "coy" and elusive tactic that some women try to use. It may work for some men, but I don't have the time or energy to deal with stuff that's under a vale. Be direct and open and I'll be much more attracted. Playing hard to get will make me impossible to get.

Hugs,

Rig Daddy

Teasing and coy actually works for me, especially when done with some swagger.

"Sprucing up" your physical appearance with misleading descriptors (i.e. 'more to love' equating to medically obese; I don't even entertain people that describe themselves that way now) designed to add an attractive guise to an otherwise biologically repellant feature is not sexy at all. Fortunately that has only happened when I've flitted online to see what was on the buffet.

My friend, they have a cuisine for any taste LOL.

Sexy gone bad... let's see... this one broad I dated back in the D knew what she was doing, loved to cook (naked), was -very- territorial (normally a turnoff, but seeing her that way had the opposite effect), and wasn't scared to scrap. This was a totally down relationship.. and then when we were geographically separated, she decided to send an email...

Holy fuck. Chick completely redefined Eubonics, 733tspeak, and I think a few integers in her stumbling through that excruciatingly illegible type. It was a little endearing, sure, but funny as fuck because the way she typed kind of did reflect the way she went on in real life. So yeah, everytime I saw her afterwards in that cocksure, hand-to-hip smirky pose, the words, "dat shyt wuz s0 tyte brah 4 relz" ruined whatever spell she had on me before.

~ Kole

I cash in on the whole coy crap, add to the the games and other bullshit. No patience for it anymore.

The muffin top... For fuck sake get clothing that fits.... seriously. Cutting the waistband across her ass making the quad ass is not hot.

I am not much for the uber thin stick figure chicks... this does not mean I have a lot of tolerance for the fat chicks either... Try to stay somewhat healthy.

Clingyness , wineyness, irresponsibility. No patience for it.

JSin

So men, is this the final list of our hits and misses?!

I still need furter explaination on the problem w/ bangs...lol

Unshaved pits or legs.

I've met a few women who thought that the "Natural" look made them more sexy. They seemed disappointed when I told them it was a turn-off.

Being wishy-washy, coy about romantic possibilities... "oh you never know", when you actually do know but have no intention or will to act on it.

I have been known sometimes to dabble sexually with women. A big turn off is drugs such as E. Do not try to tell me how much you want to be with me while on E...I will just have to say "call me sometime when you are straight." Also, being WAY too drunk is a total turn off.

What is very sexy is a just showered woman (or man). I think all sex parties should have water involved.

Criticism, and she telling me what I think, or how I feel - that shuts me me right the fuck OFF!

- and talking over me. Like when she thinks she knows what I'm going to say and blurts out her opinion before I can even finish my sentence. That feels so disrespectful, even if she gets it it right (which is rare).

- and then there's the "reading into it" scenario, when she responds not to what I SAY, but to what SHE THINKS is going on inside my head. Jesus, what are words for...?

I want to be heard. I want a two-way conversation.

Love, Bobby

ok saw another example of it just ain't sexy.

I don't care how cute you think those shoes are... If you can't walk in high heels don't wear em... They don't make you look better when you are clodding along with the distinct appearance of desperately needing to take a dump.

JSin

You all sound very set in your ways. Can you think of any saving grace for a woman with an unsexy feature or two? What would it take for you to overlook your dislikes?