To the guys out there who enjoy receving anal play from girls, anal prostate massage, and strapon anal play with their gals- would you ever talk to friends about doing these things?
I and my wife enjoy it a lot from time to time- and like most guys I'll talk about sex with other guys. But I never talk about this. I guess I'm afraid of negative reaction, even though I know there is nothing gay or unmanly about it - I'm just enjoying sexual stimulation and giving my wife a good time too. But it's something fun to talk about, like other sex stuff, and I feel like my friends who don't know about it should at least consider it, it's very exciting, and I could do them a favor by telling them about it. Guys seem to have no hesitation in talking about doing anal with their girls getting it.
Do you have friends who talk to you about doing strapons or other anal stuff with their girls?
Also, guys how would feel if you did try a strapon or other anal play from your girl and she told her friends about it?
Thank god we have these online forums to talk about this stuff...
posted by:
T.
offline T.
SF Bay Area
  • Re: talking about anal play and strapons...

    Fri, May 2, 2008 - 1:26 PM
    To my true friends sure I would talk about it when the topic of sex comes up. There aren't a lot of buddies I go that in depth with my sexual activites but those I do I don't hold back anything for fear of losing the friendship.
  • Re: talking about anal play and strapons...

    Fri, May 2, 2008 - 2:07 PM
    I have never discussed details of my sex life with another man, except in the vaguest terms that indicate how common it is to be concerned about such things as fantasies, performance, sex education resources (such as "Bend Over Boyfriend," various books, etc) or STI's and medical care. Minor tips and tricks when asked, perhaps, but it has never been a topic of general interest or discussion among my male friends, except for the sort of normal banter and playful one-up braggadocio so common among gay men (especially when they are teasing hets). It is terrific that so much of this data is available online through resources such as Dan Savage, Susie Bright, Sasha, www.scarleteen.com/, GoodVibrations.com, http://and MidwestTeenSexShow.com

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